[Updated] This is going to be a series.
I probably shouldn't do this, but I have to vent NOW, so I'm putting this in draft form, and publishing it, but I'll clean it up later.
I'm hot because Bill Cosby has a website that is designed to help people in troubled communities or help people concerned with trouble communities come up with solutions to conquer those troubles.
I'm not mad about the idea. I'm mad because it's getting heavy pub now, while other websites that have existed for some time have not received such publicity. His idea isn't new but I guess with the fame comes the pub, but it ticks me off because those on the ground are going to get blown away.
Discarded.
Not recognized.
I'm also ticked because I know conservatives will go nuts over the web site and Cosby's book (link to book here) which is co-authored with Dr. Alvin Poussaint. But what about the many other books out there that address these issues? Here is a book written in 1983(!) that people are STILL saying needs to be read if you are raising a Black boy.
I've been "all over the 'net" on issues and when it comes down to "conversations" with self identified conservatives, especially self identified Black conservatives, one of the basic questions I ask is, "What are public Black conservatives writing/saying about encouraging mentoring?" I get no response to that one.
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Look, like I wrote before, I think MOST people will do the right thing in raising their children if they know the right things to do. For example, this is what Baby Steps is all about. Obviously, this is not happening in a minority of the Black community, so, how do you go about "teaching" those not doing the right thing, to do the right thing? These people need to be mentored.
All over the 'net and in articles and in commentary, you will see people strongly criticizing and denouncing anti-social behaviors of the minority of Blacks not doing the right thing but NO WHERE, in public, will you see those same people saying this is how you do it. Or so it seems to me anyway.
[Update] Let's use marriage as a quick example. Those of us who are married or have been married, know that it is not always easy. But how many of the public Black conservatives go past, "get married!" to "how to stay married"? Joseph C. Phillips recently wrote an article about helping others out with marital issues and holding people in marriages accountable. (2 links here). Joseph C. Phillips has a few essays on marriage. In this one, he mentions holding people in marriages accountable to their vows. I really liked that one. In fact, the premise was something that was being said a lot in my world around that time. Who else? Here's something that Something I'm seeing and hearing about more in my areais churches are implementing married couples "ministries" where the older married couples mentor the younger couples. That's what I mean by mentoring.
If anyone can show me where Walter Williams, Thomas Sowell, Larry Elder, or any other prominent public Black conservatives have written about mentoring in the Black community, please let me know because I read them regularly, and I don't recall any articles.
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(Insert the lib vs. con paradigm here. I HAVE to put people on full blast or maybe a post on its own. This will probably be a post in its own. Heck, this will be a series I think).
This ain't about hate, although I know people will say it is. This is about recognizing people already doing things and getting US to acknowledge some of US are already trying to address OUR issues. And this is about HOW some of US need to DO things to help others out. This is WAY beyond shouting "STOP THAT!" which is what my original bone of contention with Cosby was all about.
As I said then, what comes after "STOP THAT!"? Now we see and I have no problems with it. But since the "STOP THAT" was already being said, I don't think it was necessary.
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