Last week I blogged about the female who bore multiple children, one of which she let be around a man she knew was a pedophile. The end result is the pedophile killed the female's son, Irvin Harris. If you want to read what I wrote, go here and here.
Shanda Harris, the female, is 41, drug addicted, has a criminal record, and has multiple children. And, as I later said, I think the pedophile used her drug addition to get access to her son, Irvin Harris. But that's my speculation with nothing to back it up but "a feeling."
Today, I was looking at the referral links and I noticed a high number of searches for that web site. So, I clicked one of the searches and started looking at some other links. That's when I came across a story by Glenn Sacks and Jeffrey Leving of the Philadelphia Daily News. The article seems to be geared towards why non-custodial men are "dead beat" dads, and this article is something for another time. What caught my eye is this:
Ward excoriates dads and calls on her fellow sisters to publicly humiliate them, saying “our men have got to get it together…the only way to do that is to take their manhood away.” Ward, who at age 27 has had four children by four different fathers, eschews any personal fault for her own situation, claiming that none of her four births were intended.
She has 4 (four, fo', three plus one, five minus one, two squared) children by 4 (four, fo', three plus one, five minus one, two squared) different men.
This is what I wrote in the entry about SorryAssBabyDaddy:
I have no problem with the concept of the web site. These males need to be "called out" and shamed into doing the minimal, which would be child support. But it would be better if they became a good influence in their children's lives.
When I went to the list of "baby daddy's," something struck me. Unless I'm misunderstanding how the listing works, it looks like the creator of the web site has 3 kids. If this is the case, then maybe more should be said about the choices women make?
I was wrong! Sistah gurl has FOUR KIDS AT 27!!!!!!!!!!!!
OH YEAH, WHERE THE HELL IS HER RESPONSIBILITY IN ALL OF THIS!?!?!?!??!?!?!
Naw, you get one in my book. One. After that, you are just not being careful.
I don't see her taking responsibility for her mess!
Again, put the males who ain't manin' up out there!!!!
But there needs to be a web site called SorryAssBabyMomma and Fadia Ward's mess needs to be put there along with Shandra Harris. Sure, put them in totally different categories, but DAMN!!!!!
Lastly, why should men who are listed as being a dead beat, but provide proof that they are not dead beats, still have to pay $20 to be taken off of the website?
[ Update ]
I should have waited and followed more links.
If you can't muster any compassion for a woman who had her first child at 13, and three more by 24, stop reading. Ward already knows some people won't like her, or her plan. Her Web site invites women to post pictures of the men who knocked them up and the stories of how they took off without living up to a father's responsibility. But that's not about to stop her.
OK, that's enough. I'm done.
I understand why she's mad, but DAMN. Just DAMN.
[ Update 2 ]
OK, I kept reading links and refined the search a bit and came up with this link. So, to be fair...
Pregnant with her first child at age 12, she has four children - ages 3, 7, 10 and 14 - by four men. But she got pregnant with her two middle children despite using birth control, she said. Her fourth pregnancy came after the man "bamboozled" her by secretly removing his condom during sex, she said.
OK, you STILL ain't takin' responsibility...